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Belief 4: I choose to ensure success. Successful people believe that they are doing the things they decide on, because they choose to do it. They have a dependence on self-determination. The more successful were, the more likely this is to be real. When we do what we should decide to do, were committed. When we do that which you need to do, were compliant. I have now made peace with all the idea that I cannot make people change. I can only enable them to get good at whatever they tend to change. Getting people that think ?I have chosen to succeed? to say ?and I decide to change? is just not a simple transition. The more we believe our behavior is caused by your own choices and commitments, the more unlikely we're to want to alter our behavior. Success Makes Us Superstitious These four success beliefs?that we contain the skills, confidence, motivation, and free choice to have success?make us superstitious to varying degrees. And, the larger we climb the totem pole, the harder superstitious we become. Narcissists usually participate in an action called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is really a kind of emotional abuse where the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his personal memory and perceptions. It is an insidious kind of abuse plus it makes victims question the instincts that they have counted on their whole lives, driving them to unclear about anything. Gaslighting makes it more than likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers inform them regardless as to their particular connection with the problem. It often precedes other types of emotional and physical abuse because the victim of gaslighting is a lot more prone to remain in other abusive situations at the same time.