the battle of hastings for children

Mine was at the bathroom the morning I got the email from Escape Adulthood speaker and expert Jason Kotecki and his wife, Kim, informing me that I was chosen as THE Adultitis Fighter of the Month. I had NO idea what that meant so I visited their site and found blogs from others who had been chosen in prior months. These everyone was amazingly awesome! They lived lives that I aspired to get like. Why had they chosen ME to get in this elite circle? What we see in a very individual that has narcissistic traits or perhaps a diagnosed personality disorder is arrogance and preoccupation with themselves along with their needs. The desire to be noticed as vital, powerful and more advanced than people is a that will require quenching at every turn. They look for people that put them on a pedestal and revere their presence and intelligence. When the same people will no longer view them in this way, they dispose of them and begin the next individual. In order to get the praise from people that they crave and desire, they are manipulative and definately will often tell lies with what they have got accomplished, who they are and what they will or could be competent at achieving. For those folks that the narcissist sees being "lower" or "less valuable" than these are, the narcissist will treat these with disdain. The need to control folks that are about them is essential for the narcissist.