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Narcissists often participate in an activity called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his or her own memory and perceptions. It is an insidious kind of abuse and it makes victims question the very instincts they have counted on their whole lives, making them unsure of anything. Gaslighting can make it more than likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers inform them regardless regarding their very own connection with the situation. It often precedes other kinds of emotional and physical abuse because the victim of gaslighting is a lot more prone to be in other abusive situations at the same time. If only computer commands like "ctrl-alt-del" or "ctrl-z" can be applied to human life, then getting back together together with your ex is effortless and nobody will dare ask themselves on the best way to undo being dumped. But as everyone understands, life doesn't work doing this. When being dumped already happened, both of you might be struggling to get away from the painful path towards recovery. There is another way of looking at it. The wisest among us would not use the word fear but would replace it with more acceptable notion and words such as ‘cautious’ and ‘wary’. Either way, fear defines most, if not everything that we do in life. Or should we say that fear starts to control us, our feelings and our thoughts?