With this in view they authorized the Sikh Army to cross the Sutlej in a very headlong confrontation with all the English. Ranjit had signed a treaty using the British that forbade him to cross the Sutlej River, but this became broken. The English were however getting ready for that conflict and they had spies inside the Lahore Durbar, with perhaps the Prime Minister, the grandfather with the present Kashmir ruler( Now deposed) Karan Singh finding myself league with them and plotting the defeat of the Sikh Army. This service what food was in return for him to get made the Maharajah of Jammu and Kashmir. Narcissists often participate in an activity called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his or her own memory and perceptions. It is an insidious kind of abuse and it makes victims question the very instincts they have counted on their whole lives, making them unsure of anything. Gaslighting can make it more than likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers inform them regardless regarding their very own connection with the situation. It often precedes other kinds of emotional and physical abuse because the victim of gaslighting is a lot more prone to be in other abusive situations at the same time.