People with HCPs have become good actors and Family Court is a giant stage for the kids. While the low conflict person is depending on calm truthful testimony to get the judge to believe their case, the HCP uses techniques like dramatic speech patterns, crying, body movements and non-stop talking to obtain drama played out. Judges are interested in these because they can identify with them. They are an element of interpersonal engagement. The dramatic presentation with the HCP is remembered considerably longer than the rational fact based presentation of a reasonable person. When a plan is finally formulated it usually looks something such as this; you are going on a diet of some sort and if you're really motivated attempt an exercise program. This makes sense because everybody knows the fewer calories we take in the more fat we could lose. Add jogging a couple of times a week and some sit-up and eventually that rebellious stomach is going to be put in its place. With this in view they authorized the Sikh Army to cross the Sutlej in the headlong confrontation with all the English. Ranjit had signed a treaty with all the British that forbade him to cross the Sutlej River, but it was broken. The English were however getting ready for that conflict and they also had spies inside Lahore Durbar, with the Prime Minister, the grandfather of the present Kashmir ruler( Now deposed) Karan Singh being in league with them and plotting the defeat from the Sikh Army. This service is at return for him being made the Maharajah of Jammu and Kashmir.