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People who are desperate for love will attract the unsuspecting Empath in their mind. The innocent Empath often pays the cost of their kindness. It's a natural tendency to the person in pain to love their rescuer. Lines tend to get blurred. The Empath often gets hurt in the process. I have experienced this myself. It's painful to the Empath to view someone else experiencing emotional distress. I have personally been drawn into other people's suffering this way. I find myself being released these situations disoriented and wondering so what happened. Mine was at the bathroom the morning I got the email from Escape Adulthood speaker and expert Jason Kotecki and his wife, Kim, informing me that I was chosen as THE Adultitis Fighter of the Month. I had NO idea what that meant so I visited their site and found blogs from others who had been chosen in prior months. These everyone was amazingly awesome! They lived lives that I aspired to get like. Why had they chosen ME to get in this elite circle? "In all practices with the Seventy-two Arts in the beginning principle theory is studied and only then work outs are done. At first those who practice the arts train the softness of these sinews and bones and try to make agile all of their joints and articulations. Then they set into motion the principle breath ZONG LI, strengthen the interior organs FU, improve blood state, consolidate body strength, control the cinnabar field while keeping your focus energy inside it, overcome their desires and requirements. The strength spreads for the four extremities and also the hundred joints and articulations, now a fighter is command of unlimited power and the man can move off 1000 jins. Your arm weighing only ten jins can move anything weighing ten thousand jins having a stroke. Your arms are a head, your legs really are a tail. Everything is permeated with a single movement, one's body moves being a dragon. Teachers said: “Shaolin exercises develop forces with the whole human organism, all joints and bones; you are competent at striking with all areas of the body. " There is another saying: “The fist will be the method to obtain all arts and the leg may be the base, the root with the fist. " Ordinary practice of pugilism consists of 70 % of leg training and thirty percent of fist training. If you acquire pugilism, you can use eighteen types of weapon. If you resort to all ruses of pugilism, you can fight ten thousand fighters. " /Secret Shaolin Treatises about the Pugilistic Art/