Amazingly, there isn't a lots of scientific research about how glasses can transform the way in which people see you -- instead of how they see what's facing them. But there's a high correlation with the Hollywood notion the fastest way to turn actors into giving the impression of scientists is always to make them wear a pair of not too flattering spectacles. Makeup, manicuring, eye brow waxing and plucking, tanning, women's high heel sandals, teeth correction and highlighting-- we have been talking about preparing for a wedding, right? No, we are referring to preparing a kid for any beauty pageant. You heard it right. They put false teeth in if a young child loses your baby tooth before a competition; they highlight their hair and wax their eyebrows. Worse yet, they defend it. Narcissists often participate in an activity called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his or her own memory and perceptions. It is an insidious kind of abuse and it makes victims question the very instincts they have counted on their whole lives, making them unsure of anything. Gaslighting can make it more than likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers inform them regardless regarding their very own connection with the situation. It often precedes other kinds of emotional and physical abuse because the victim of gaslighting is a lot more prone to be in other abusive situations at the same time. 4. The number of arguments they make