People who are desperate for love will attract the unsuspecting Empath in their mind. The innocent Empath often pays the cost of their kindness. It's a natural tendency to the person in pain to love their rescuer. Lines tend to get blurred. The Empath often gets hurt in the process. I have experienced this myself. It's painful to the Empath to view someone else experiencing emotional distress. I have personally been drawn into other people's suffering this way. I find myself being released these situations disoriented and wondering so what happened. The first thing to give full attention to is the classic fruits and veggies. Unprocessed fruits and veggies have limitless nutritional benefits and contain no processed wheat or gluten whatsoever. Feel free to use any fresh spices and herbs using these products. This will include a zest of flavor for your meals and will also be wondering what you've been missing. In terms of frozen vegetables and fruit, nearly all are gluten free but make sure you check the nutritional label for ingredients. Also, most ice cream and sorbet is gluten free so that you can splurge there without worry. There are even gluten free frozen waffles for many who shouldn't totally eliminate those types of foods off their diets.